“Fear, anxiety, arousal, and pain; all are emotions and sensations. They are neither right, nor are they wrong; good nor bad. They are simply passions, a most important part of life. Feel them, fully experience them, surrender to them, and learn to accept them. As a submissive, you must let go.”
~ André Chevalier
B D S M
Bondage – Discipline – Dominance – Submission – Sadism – Masochism
An Introduction to B D S M
Intimacy Coaching with Daka Dan
Since 50 Shades of Grey came out there has been a lot of talk about BDSM. Unfortunately, the book was very poorly written and painted BDSM in a somewhat negative light in some aspects. Fortunately it has begun to open up the conversation. While I would recommend Anne Rice’s Beauty Series as a far better written tale of BDSM I’m just happy people are awakening to it’s availability. Don’t be surprised if some of the items below begin to get you a bit excited. In a recent study more than 75% of participants reported having bondage fantasies. Likely you are not alone.
BDSM is a means to an end and there are many. One, for those of you who are in your head around sex it is very difficult to remain in your head when there is spanking or any other form of BDSM play. Two, the added stimulation kicks off endorphins into the bloodstream. If you’ve ever heard of “runners high” this is exactly what I’m talking about, but this is called “subspace,” which is a natural high from this work. Three, in order to be in this scenario you have to have complete trust with your partner. This is a fantastic way to let go and turn yourself over to someone.
An Introduction to B D S M
Intimacy Coaching with Daka Dan
Since 50 Shades of Grey came out there has been a lot of talk about BDSM. Unfortunately, the book was very poorly written and painted BDSM in a somewhat negative light in some aspects. Fortunately it has begun to open up the conversation. While I would recommend Anne Rice’s Beauty Series as a far better written tale of BDSM I’m just happy people are awakening to it’s availability. Don’t be surprised if some of the items below begin to get you a bit excited. In a recent study more than 75% of participants reported having bondage fantasies. Likely you are not alone.
BDSM is a means to an end and there are many. One, for those of you who are in your head around sex it is very difficult to remain in your head when there is spanking or any other form of BDSM play. Two, the added stimulation kicks off endorphins into the bloodstream. If you’ve ever heard of “runners high” this is exactly what I’m talking about, but this is called “subspace,” which is a natural high from this work. Three, in order to be in this scenario you have to have complete trust with your partner. This is a fantastic way to let go and turn yourself over to someone.
What to expect in private BDSM coaching sessions
Drives and motivations behind BDSM
- Drives and motivations behind BDSM
- Understanding the whys and why nots of 50 Shades of Grey
- Why would you ever want to be spanked?
- Using BDSM to heal old wounds
Creating safety
- Terminology and definitions
- Etiquette
- Safe, sane and consensual, we’ll keep the RACK out of it for now
- How to create safety when entering into a scene
- Negotiating to ensure your safety and extreme pleasure
Getting started
- Preparing for a scene
- Creating consent because otherwise it will not be pretty
- How to begin to explore your fantasies with a partner or in public
- The role of electricity in putting you over the edge
- Tools of the trade to help you better understand your desires
- Sensation means more than just pain: looking at sounds, smells, visuals that can enhance your scene
- Learning the ropes of bondage to stay safe and not cause any true physical harm
Request a 30 minute FREE phone consultation
What to expect in private BDSM coaching sessions
Drives and motivations behind BDSM
- Drives and motivations behind BDSM
- Understanding the whys and why nots of 50 Shades of Grey
- Why would you ever want to be spanked?
- Using BDSM to heal old wounds
Creating safety
- Terminology and definitions
- Etiquette
- Safe, sane and consensual, we’ll keep the RACK out of it for now
- How to create safety when entering into a scene
- Negotiating to ensure your safety and extreme pleasure
Request a 20 min FREE phone consultation
Getting started
- Preparing for a scene
- Creating consent because otherwise it will not be pretty
- How to begin to explore your fantasies with a partner or in public
- The role of electricity in putting you over the edge
- Tools of the trade to help you better understand your desires
- Sensation means more than just pain: looking at sounds, smells, visuals that can enhance your scene
- Learning the ropes of bondage to stay safe and not cause any true physical harm